How to Move Beyond Blame and Reclaim Your Wholeness

By Vicki Tidwell Palmer, LCSW The following article is based on Pia Mellody’s Post Induction Therapy model of treating childhood trauma. When it comes to dealing with childhood issues, most of us tend to gravitate toward one of the following extremes: It’s in the past, so what’s the point?It’s… Read More

John Bradshaw: Being Nobody Special – The Spiritual Healing Powers of Anonymity

Over the years, I’ve had several persons who wanted my counseling, whom I found ravished with shame that manifested in an unusual kind of grandiosity. I connected with them because I have it in a different way myself. Over the years, I came to recognize what I call “reverse grandiosity.”… Read More

ADHD, Income Taxes, and Unopened Envelopes

By Bonnie A. DenDooven, MC, LAC Many Americans have a visceral, gut-wrenching reaction to the terms “IRS” and “taxes”. It is a response quite similar to the way certain war veterans with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) overreact to the sound of a car backfiring. For those who suffer… Read More

Compulsive Exercise: A Good Thing Gone Wrong

At 39 weeks pregnant, a runner recently made national headlines following the completion of a marathon. She ran 26.2 miles. Her doctor gave her permission to run an impressive 13.1 miles of the race, yet she opted to double her doctor’s orders. She ran the entire race and then embarked… Read More

A Look Back to the Future: 9/11 Revisited

I spent many years on Wall Street – before my years in recovery and before I became the therapist I am today. I worked in international banking, traded physical commodities for conglomerates, and later worked for a large brokerage firm on the trading desk in the High Yield “Junk Bond”… Read More

The Killing of Bin Laden and the Search for Meaning

“The scenes played out on TV and computer screens all across the nation – people spilling into the streets in jubilation over the news that Osama bin Laden had been captured and killed. Some recited the Pledge of Allegiance. Some sang the national anthem. Some clapped. Some cheered.” “For the… Read More

The Meadows Honors John Bradshaw for a Lifetime of Work in the Fields of Addiction and Recovery

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE:Jan. 31, 2011Wickenburg, Arizona THE MEADOWS HONORS JOHN BRADSHAW FOR A LIFETIME OF WORK IN THE FIELDS OF ADDICTION AND RECOVERY On January 22, 2011, The Meadows, America’s premier center for the treatment of addiction and trauma, honored senior fellow John Bradshaw by dedicating a lecture… Read More

Equine Assisted Psychotherapy at The Meadows

Upon arriving at The Meadows, many patients are charmed by the view of equine activities at nearby ranches. They frequently ask about having Equine Assisted Psychotherapy (EAP) as part of their primary treatment program. As a direct result of these requests, EAP is among the newest offerings coming to… Read More

Bessel van der Kolk on Traumatic Memory

Bessel van der Kolk, Clinical Consultant for The Meadows, was recently mentioned in an article on PsychCentral. On her blog “Healing Together for Couples”, Suzanne Phillips cites Dr. van der Kolk’s classic text, The Body Keeps Score: “In his famous work on traumatic memories, Bessel van der Kolk (1994)… Read More

The Electricity of Carried Shame

Note: This article originally appeared in Fall 2005 of MeadowLark, the magazine for alumni of The Meadows. The Electricity of Carried ShameBy Lawrence S. Freundlich Children need and expect love and nurturing from their parents. This expectation is built into the genes of the human infant, who needs affirmation… Read More